The Approach
The understanding beneath everything I do
Every tool I use, from tapping and hypnosis to belief change and coaching, rests on a single foundation: the recognition that you are already whole. This is that foundation.
What Is Non-Duality Coaching?
Non-duality is the guiding framework underneath all of Fern’s work. It starts from the idea that you are already whole, a single complete awareness, and that the pain, anxiety, and stuckness so many people carry come from the beliefs, trauma, and thought storms that obscure that wholeness, not from any actual lack in who you are.
Fern was introduced to these teachings through her friendship with Stephen Pollitt, who first pointed her toward the writings of Joel Goldsmith. Goldsmith’s work opened up a mystical tradition focused on recognizing what was never missing, rather than acquiring something new. That understanding now sits beneath every modality Fern practices, from tapping to hypnosis to belief change work.
Non-duality coaching takes that foundation and makes it a dedicated practice: a space to work directly with the thought storms, old trauma, and limiting beliefs that keep pulling you out of the peace you can already sense is there.
Who Is This For?
You might recognize yourself here:
- “I understand non-duality intellectually, but I keep getting pulled back into thought storms”
- “I’ve read the books and been to the satsangs, but old trauma still runs my life”
- “Meditation helps, until it doesn’t”
- “I can glimpse peace, but limiting beliefs keep dragging me back into the story”
- “I want a guide who’s practical, not just philosophical”
If any of these sound familiar, this coaching is for the gap between understanding non-duality and actually living it.
What to Expect in a Session
Sessions are 1:1 and virtual, conducted by video call or phone. The conversation leads. There’s no script and no fixed program. As trauma, limiting beliefs, or anxiety surface in the conversation, Fern draws on her full toolkit (TFT tapping, Psych-K, hypnosis, NLP) to help clear the specific block in the moment, always within the wider non-duality framework of returning you to what you already are.
Because this work follows what’s arising rather than a set curriculum, sessions are booked as needed. Some clients come for a single conversation around a specific block, others return periodically as new layers surface.
The best place to start is a free 30-minute discovery call, a relaxed conversation to see whether this approach suits you.
Common questions
What is non-duality? +
Non-duality is the understanding that beneath all our thoughts, roles, and stories, there is a single, whole awareness that we already are. It isn't something we have to earn or achieve. Suffering comes when beliefs, trauma, and habitual thinking cover it over, so the work is about clearing away what's in the way.
Do I need a background in non-duality to benefit? +
No, though many clients have already read teachers like Eckhart Tolle, Michael Singer, or Joel Goldsmith and understand the ideas intellectually. If that's you, this coaching gives you a practical way to work with what keeps pulling you back into the thought storm. If you're newer to these ideas, Fern will meet you where you are.
How is this different from therapy or meditation instruction? +
Therapy usually works with the content of your story, analyzing the past and the personality. Meditation instruction teaches you a technique to practice on your own. Non-duality coaching with Fern is conversation-led and points directly at what's aware of the thoughts, while also using practical tools to clear the specific trauma and limiting beliefs that keep pulling you back into old patterns.
How do Fern's other tools (TFT, Psych-K, hypnosis) fit in? +
Non-duality is the foundation underneath everything Fern offers. Within a session, she'll use whichever tool (TFT tapping, Psych-K, hypnosis, or NLP) best clears the specific belief, trauma, or emotional charge that's arising for you in the moment, always in service of the same aim: helping you rest more fully in what you already are.
Is this religious? +
No. Non-duality cuts across religions and denominations and isn't tied to any faith or doctrine. Clients from any (or no) religious background are welcome.
Curious whether this is for you?
Your first session includes a complimentary extra 15 minutes. If money is tight, get in touch. No one is turned away because of cost.
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